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WHY "LIVING IN THE MOMENT " IS A FOOLISH IDEA

"You know what you think alot. you must" Live in the moment". Each one of us have heard this line from friends, boyfriends, bosses .what a wonderful line to trick somebody's mind and convience them to break the shield and do what makes us feel good. i personally have lost the count of people who have given me this line as a "funda" of their life. Although this advice is alluring and justifying, it often fails to produce desirable results in the real world.
"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect." Actually, in many cases, it ruins people's lives. Living for the moment is the reason people leave marriages,have flings, lose control over their health, and why America is trillions of dollars in debt.
 Instead for living for the moment, remember your past while taking decisions.
Although our distant past may not be pretty, our recent past is a clear indicator of our present circumstances. How have your …

Time Management with ANVESHI JAIN

we are running out of time. i say ,if you dont reposition yourself, you could miss the best time and oppurtunities in your life. For the last 10-15 years you have been on the run from one thing to the next thing then to the next thing, trying to make all the stuff work and still not having enough time for things that matters.life's tough,its so tough getting ready for a birthday,but not having time to buy a Gift,its tough to not get your light bills,water bills paid on time. So what do we do with these moments?Do we just have them and go back home and wait for the next one ?Are we just habitually addicted to moments without being able to take the moment and strategiacally to do something worthy. STOP IT. STAND STILL. If Time is something that you are lacking ,let me put it to you this way. we all have 24*7=168 hours in a week. If you are working 40 hours in a week (like sonal) and sleeping 8 hours per day i.e.,56 hours of sleep . you still have 72 HOURS. okay, lets assume you are work…

NOW !

TO most people, present moment almost doesn't exist because what they are really interested in is the next moment or the next after it so they always live towards future and unconsciously they regard the next moment which they need to reach, as more important then this moment. the future moment where they want to get to as quickly as possible, they dont  recognize that the future has no existence except as a thought form.so when you always live towards future you live your life trapped in a conceptual reality of thought forms,which looks like a greater significance for you than the immidiate reality of life which is always now because your life consists entirely of present moments.your life is never not this moment. Even when we think of past , you can only remember it now, and when you think about the future you only think of it now but people live as if present moment were an obstacle that they need to overcome.In order to get to some better point,(which never arrives)so that…

How to use Law of attraction to visualize success and turn into reality

Most people block the law of attraction because they do not understand how to talk to the universe and use the secret better.
There are certain tricks to using law of attraction to easily manifest what you want, but you need to learn how to talk to the universe.
Most people struggle with law of attraction because they’ve never properly understood how to talk to the universe to use the law of attraction.people struggle with LOA because they do not understand how to use it. So I share my biggest takeaways so you can apply it to your life easily.
In this video you’ll learn how to use the law of attraction, understand it better, and apply it to your life.
The first step is to understand that you’re always using Law of Attraction. Most of us spend our whole lives doing it unconsciously.We use unconscious negative affirmations as a technique that holds us back from what we want in life.You have to become conscious of your affirmations and begin to use positive thinking techniques to feel w…

what is your life purpose

Most of us have no clue what we want to do with our lives. Even after we finish school. Even after we get a job. Even after we’re making money. Between ages 18 and 25, I changed career aspirations more often than I changed my clothes.And even after I had a business, an engineering degree couldn't I clearly define what I wanted for my life. Chances are you’re more like me and have no clue what you want to do. It’s a struggle almost every adult goes through. “What do I want to do with my life?” “What am I passionate about?” “What do I not suck at?” I often receive emails from people in their 40s and 50s who still have no clue what they want to do with themselves. Part of the problem is the concept of “life purpose” itself. The idea that we were each born for some higher purpose and it’s now our cosmic mission to find it. This is the same kind of shitty logic used to justify things like spirit crystals or that your lucky number is 34 (but only on Tuesdays or during full moons).Here’…

LOVE ME BACK

LOVE ME BACK!  -Life

 Use Love as the ultimate power in your life.you must love like you have never loved before. Fall in love with your life.However much you have loved in your life, double your feeling, multiply that feelings by 10 times,a thousand times a day because that is the level of love we are capable of feeling!
so how do you fall in love with life?The same way you feel for another person-you adore everything about them.you fall in love with aanother person by seeing only love, hearing only love and that is exactly how you use the power of love with life.
whaever you are doing ,wherever you are in your day look for the things you love.you look forward to technogoy and inventions you love,.look for buildings you love, look for cafes, restaurants you love.hear what you love,speak about what you love!

FIND LOVE WITH THE RIGHT BODY LANGUAGE

                         FIND LOVE WITH THE RIGHT BODY LANGUAGE

Before you even say a word, your body language is expressing some sort of message to an outside observer. The message or signal that is being interpreted can form the basis of any first impression, and greatly affect the subsequent relationship. In a budding-romantic relationship, body language is especially crucial for conveying the right signs to a prospective partner. 

When it comes to making decisions about your relationship, it helps to be calm and confident. No matter if you’re dating or if you’re in a relationship, this begins with body language. In 2012, the Harvard University social scientist Amy Cuddy gave a wonderfulTED Talkabout the degree to which our body language affects confidence levels and impacts mental and emotional states, creating a powerful physiological feedback loop. By being aware of your posture, you can reduce anxiety and stress levels, boost your confidence, and send positive signals to those ar…

Mothers Day

hey you,

i know how you feel today.its mother's day.i know either you are away from your mom or your mom is away from you infinitely away.she has gone to a distance that you cannot travel but they say 'you know she is around' to console you,they dont know what else to say,how to ease your pain.
that's what you say to calm yourself and i know this,i know for sure
that doesn't work for you,does it? you have made peace with hundreds of things in life but you cannot make peace with the regret that you live with of not spending enough time with your mom and dad when they were around.
Then there are semi lucky people like me who are blessed to have mom and dad a call away.those who are in a situation like me will very well understand this.i am away from my native town for more than 10 years now. away from being caught stealing that 6th piece of kaju katli kept for guest in the fridge,away from being caught wearing improper clothes, away from being noticed that i haven't …

A LETTER TO MY YOUNGER SELF

Dear independant gorgeous girl,
   And i use the word independent because i know that's the word you would never use for yourself. when i look into your eyes and i see the light and hope of myself.



In this photo you just turned 20.you just got the first event of your life.you look calm,you look happy but i know how scared you are .if i could say anything to you it would be relax,its gonna be okay girl.you are proud of yourself for getting this opportunity but also uncertain ,uncertain that you will be manage to convince your parents about this dream thing.they dint agree even so you did what you had to do.

 one of your biggest concern then is your relationship,yes ,you are dating someone and you have your friends as you get this opportunity you brought them to your stage thinking they will be impressed and proud,but they look less than impressed,the truth is they are intimidated,you don’t know this.you see yourself only through their eyes.A LESSON YOU WILL HAVE TO LEARN AGAIN AND AGA…

What stops people from having the life they want.

In a world of Amazon, McDonalds, Netflix, Spotify, AirBnB, Uber and Tinder, nobody wants to do this the harder way. Nobody’s willing to give up comfort now for greatness later. Everything in life has to be cheap, fast and easy. Cheap, fast, easy. Nothing worth having comes easy. Nothing worth having comes fast. Nothing worth having comes cheap. If you’re not willing to walk, you’ll never run a marathon.If you’re not willing to write, you’ll never publish a book.If you’re not willing to sit on the floor, you’ll never have an office.If you’re not willing to cook, you’ll never eat healthily.If you’re not willing to get up, you’ll never make your dreams a reality.If you’re not willing to go to the gym, you’ll never be fit.If you’re not willing to turn off the TV, you’ll never read.If you’re not willing to go on an actual date, you’ll never find love.If you’re not willing to press publish, you’ll never know if you’re any good.If you’re not willing to show yourself on camera, you’ll never b…

DOES YOUR JOB SUCK?

Once a client of mine refered my name to a young lady who was fed up with her current job.she was told that i can solve her issues and make her life a better place. I met this sweet lady,and even before i could extend her a warm hello,she began with "I hate my job.i hate the people in my office.i hate the environment of my office and the work load is even unbearable. i had never seen as much anger in any human as i saw in her.she restlessly asked can you help me?.I heard her calmly and i told her firmly that 'Mam i am afraid but your situation is about to get worse,she said what do you mean? i believe they gonna fire you?i said.she said Fire me? why on the earth they would fire me? Have you ever noticed when somebody is about to loose something that they've been complianing about,whether thats a car,a job, a mate whatever ,suddenly it takes a brand new value.so she looked at me and said,What can i do? i said mam i have got an idea that will absolutely gurantee you that it …

"I AM TOO FULL OF LIFE TO BE HALF LOVED"

Please say 'yes' if you have ever felt this way. your guy has put you into this feeling. On the surface level you and the rest of the world will see that oh! he is nice, loving, caring or atleast half of everyhing you thought he would be. you made peace with rest of the half that is not there because you focus on his"efforts".i want you to emphasise on efforts because that is what, we all differ at.Efforts make an image of a person.i think i have judged every guy on the basis of their level of efforts they put in a situation that they could have easily let go of.That makes them a Gentlemen.
         There was this guy i came across.We met in a get-togather.and for some situation he was droping me home. he was very outspoken and talking about himself ,flaunting and pretty loud so in a way everything went against the imagination of a guy i would like to meet again (i m extremely choosy when it comes to choose who's worth my time).by the time i reached my place i mad…