If you're lucky ,you get to meet the love of your life. In an instant ,they somehow matter to us more than people, we have known our whole lives. such people matter because we grow attached to them. we spent years to know them seeing them at their strongest and their weakest, understanding their thought processes ,what makes them up. these people don't go by calculations of love,they just love us more in a single year than others could love us in fifty.They can teach us more in a day than others have taught us over the entire course of our lifetime. and we might not get that lifetime with them.sometimes your soulmate doesn't get to be the person you grow old with. sometimes your soulmate wants a big family with children in his small town and you want a thriving carrer in the city. sometimes your soulmate craves adventure and challenges while you need stability and stillness. sometimes you outlive your soulmate.sometimes one of your love outlives the other's. Even t