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THE NEED TO BE ALONE

Alone is a word which is not associated with any good feelings .we don't even like the sound of it.Although i am talking about aloneness not loneliness.there is a difference.L onleliness  is a lack, a feeling that something is missing, a depression, a need, an incompleteness, an absence.  Aloneness  is presence, fullness, aliveness, joy of being, overflowing Self love. You are complete. Nobody is needed, you are enough.       because our culture places such a high value on sociability it is awkward to understand how much at certain points we just need to be alone .we  take other people very seriously perhaps more seriously than those in the uncomplicated ranks of the endlessly gregarious. we listen closely to stories we give ourselves to others. we respond with emotion and empathy but as a result we cannot keep swimming in company indefinately.at a certain point  we've had enough of conversations that take us away from our own thought processes. enough of external demands t

TRAITS OF A LEADER

How to spot a leader ! We all know that person ,when he walks ,there is a magnetism to them ,they turn tables with their poise and charisma and you May not know this but we intuitively pick up someone’s ability to lead . There was a fascinating study done on how people look at a picture of 4500 CEO standing togather and surprisingly people easily figured who among all were the most influential and most profitable one .so how charismatic a person is depends on factors like their TESTOSTERONE levels,how they carry themselves and microexpressions of their face .i had this interesting session with the FBAI. I want you to guess your answers too as i ask them questions about traits of a leader.