Anveshi jain blogs

Dear independant gorgeous girl,    And i use the word independent because i know that's the word you would never use for yourself. when i look into your eyes and i see the light and hope of myself. In this photo you just turned 20.you just got the first event of your life.you look calm,you look happy but i know how scared you are .if i could say anything to you it would be relax,its gonna be okay girl.you are proud of yourself for getting this opportunity but also uncertain ,uncertain that you will be manage to convince your parents about this dream thing.they dint agree even so you did what you had to do.  one of your biggest concern then is your relationship,yes ,you are dating someone and you have your friends as you get this opportunity you brought them to your stage thinking they will be impressed and proud,but they look less than impressed,the truth is they are intimidated,you don’t know this.you see yourself only through their eyes.A ...

In a world of Amazon, McDonalds, Netflix, Spotify, AirBnB, Uber and Tinder, nobody wants to do this the harder way. Nobody’s willing to give up comfort now for greatness later. Everything in life has to be cheap, fast and easy. Cheap, fast, easy. Nothing worth having comes easy. Nothing worth having comes fast. Nothing worth having comes cheap. If you’re not willing to walk, you’ll never run a marathon. If you’re not willing to write, you’ll never publish a book. If you’re not willing to sit on the floor, you’ll never have an office. If you’re not willing to cook, you’ll never eat healthily. If you’re not willing to get up, you’ll never make your dreams a reality. If you’re not willing to go to the gym, you’ll never be fit. If you’re not willing to turn off the TV, you’ll never read. If you’re not willing to go on an actual date, you’ll never find love. If you’re not willing to press publish, you’ll never know if you’re any good. If you’re not willing to show you...

Once a client of mine refered my name to a young lady who was fed up with her current job.she was told that i can solve her issues and make her life a better place. I met this sweet lady,and even before i could extend her a warm hello,she began with "I hate my job.i hate the people in my office.i hate the environment of my office and the work load is even unbearable. i had never seen as much anger in any human as i saw in her.she restlessly asked can you help me?.I heard her calmly and i told her firmly that 'Mam i am afraid but your situation is about to get worse,she said what do you mean? i believe they gonna fire you?i said.she said Fire me? why on the earth they would fire me? Have you ever noticed when somebody is about to loose something that they've been complianing about,whether thats a car,a job, a mate whatever ,suddenly it takes a brand new value .so she looked at me and said,What can i do? i said mam i have got an idea that will absolutely gurantee you tha...

Please say 'yes' if you have ever felt this way. your guy has put you into this feeling. On the surface level you and the rest of the world will see that oh! he is nice, loving, caring or atleast half of everyhing you thought he would be. you made peace with rest of the half that is not there because you focus on his"efforts".i want you to emphasise on efforts because that is what, we all differ at.Efforts make an image of a person.i think i have judged every guy on the basis of their level of efforts they put in a situation that they could have easily let go of.That makes them a Gentlemen.          There was this guy i came across.We met in a get-togather.and for some situation he was droping me home. he was very outspoken and talking about himself ,flaunting and pretty loud so in a way everything went against the imagination of a guy i would like to meet again (i m extremely choosy when it comes to choose who's worth my time).by the time i reached my place ...