TRAITS OF A LEADER

How to spot a leader !

We all know that person ,when he walks ,there is a magnetism to them ,they turn tables with their poise and charisma and you May not know this but we intuitively pick up someone’s ability to lead . There was a fascinating study done on how people look at a picture of 4500 CEO standing togather and surprisingly people easily figured who among all were the most influential and most profitable one .so how charismatic a person is depends on factors like their TESTOSTERONE levels,how they carry themselves and microexpressions of their face .i had this interesting session with the FBAI. I want you to guess your answers too as i ask them questions about traits of a leader.

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