Anveshi jain blogs

If you're lucky ,you get to meet the love of your life. In an instant ,they somehow matter to us more than people, we have known our whole lives. such people matter because we grow attached to them. we spent years to know them seeing them at their strongest and their weakest, understanding their thought processes ,what makes them up. these people don't go by calculations of love,they just love us more in a single year than others could love us in fifty.They can teach us more in a day than others have taught us over the entire course of our lifetime. and we might not get that lifetime with them.sometimes your soulmate doesn't get to be the person you grow old with. sometimes your soulmate wants a big family with children in his small town and you want a thriving carrer in the city. sometimes your soulmate craves adventure and challenges while you need stability and stillness. sometimes you outlive your soulmate.sometimes one of your love outlives the other's. Even t

Dear big brown eyed woman, Where you are not is just as important as where you are.  Who you are not is more important than who you are.  "i know who i am not "- The process of Elimination.Eliminate who your not first. just because you are doing alot more doesn't mean you are getting a lot more done.Don't confuse movement with progress. As Mathew MCconaughey says- defining ourselves of what we are not is usually the first step that leads to really knowing who we are . You know that group of friends that you hang out with? That really might not bring out the best in you? You know, they gossip too much, or they kind of shady. They really aren't gonna be there for you in a pinch Or how about that bar that you keep going to, that you always seem to have the worst hangover from? Or that computer screen right? the computer screen that keeps giving you an excuse not to get out of the house and engage with the world and get some real hum

Humans are masters of self-deception. We fool ourselves into believing things that are false and we refuse to believe things that are true. I was new in mumbai , few friends i found here were in phantasm of themselves. one of them use to lie about being occupied in work and meetings even when he is purely doing nothing, soon i realised he is lying to himself much more than to everyone else . that's when I really started delving into the topic of self-deception. And it rocked my world. I saw it everywhere, in everyone. We lie to ourselves about the smallest details, such as how much we really ate today, and why we didn't list our actual height and weight on our driver's license. We lie to reflect our aspirational goals: "I'll only have one glass of wine tonight," - when I know I'm drinking at least three. We lie to uphold social ideals "I never have sexual tho